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Want to Connect to Other Moms Going Through Divorce or Separation?
Want to Connect to Other Moms Going Through Divorce or Separation?

Want to connect to other moms going through, or who have gone through a divorce or separation?

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Resourcesalexis barad-cutlerNovember 12, 2019divorce, separation, marriage, marriage counseling, loveComment
21-Day Guide to Pregnancy (& Beyond)
21-Day Guide to Pregnancy (& Beyond)

Enroll now in this 21-Day Guide to pregnancy, childbirth, and beyond.

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Affiliatealexis barad-cutlerOctober 7, 2019Empowered Birth, Commune, Birth, Pregnancy, YogaComment
Pregnant Expat in an Unwelcoming City
Pregnant Expat in an Unwelcoming City

“You’re crazy,” the doctor declared. “Do you have any idea how expensive it is to have a baby in Germany? You don’t even have proper insurance. At least do you know who the father is? Your poor kid that will have you as a mother.”

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alexis barad-cutlerSeptember 13, 2019
When the Clock Strikes Baby (and No Partner’s in Sight)
When the Clock Strikes Baby (and No Partner’s in Sight)

Biological clocks are a real thing — for men as well as for women, of course. It's just when that clock starts ticking that's pretty individual. I don’t have a memory of a time when I didn’t adore babies; of both the animal, and human kind.

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Essayalexis barad-cutlerSeptember 6, 2019notsafeformomgroup, nsfmg, essay, single mom, singlemom, baby fever, babyfeverComment
Ask an Expert: How to Sleep Train in a One-Bedroom Apartment
Ask an Expert: How to Sleep Train in a One-Bedroom Apartment

Hey Mom Group — “I need some advice and was hoping to ask the group! I have a 5-month-old son who doesn’t sleep. Or rather he wakes up every 2 hrs or so and the only thing to soothe him is the boob. . .

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Ask An Expertalexis barad-cutlerAugust 22, 2019Sleep Train, Sleep, Cosleep, Co-Sleep, Toddler, Infant Sleep, Sleep Consultant, Bonne Nuit BabyComment
What Does White Feminism Mean, Anyway?
What Does White Feminism Mean, Anyway?

What is white feminism, you ask? In her Vogue essay, “When Feminism is White Supremacy in Heels” (a must-read), activist and writer Rachel Cargle explains that feminism isn’t intersectional unless there is “intentional and action-based inclusion of women of color.”

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Resourcesalexis barad-cutlerAugust 19, 2019Feminism, Intersectional, White Feminism, Rachel Cargle, Women's March, Women's Rights, Female Rage, Rage
The Mother-In-Law Horror Stories Olympics ( Plus Father-in-Law Too)
The Mother-In-Law Horror Stories Olympics ( Plus Father-in-Law Too)

Mom Group was very busy this week sending horrible Mother-in-Law (MIL) stories. We posted most of them on Instagram, but some came in after we had moved onto the next topic — and they were too good not to share.

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Reader Quotesalexis barad-cutlerAugust 5, 2019Mother-In-Law, MIL, Father-In-Law, FIL, Horror Stories, Olypics, In-LawsComment
Normalizing Pregnancy Sex with Adult Filmmaker Erika Lust
Normalizing Pregnancy Sex with Adult Filmmaker Erika Lust

The general cultural discomfort with women’s sexuality during pregnancy is exactly what Indie-adult filmmaker, and mother of two, Erika Lust explores in her latest (NSFW) film . . .

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Feature, Interviewalexis barad-cutlerJuly 22, 2019Sexual Pleasure, Sexual, Sex Lives, Pregnancy, Pregnancy Sex, Adult Film, Pornography, Erika Lust, Interview, Stigma, TabooComment
Empowered Birth - Free 21-Day Course
Empowered Birth - Free 21-Day Course

Learn more about this FREE 21-day online guide to pregnancy, childbirth, and early postpartum — by Schuyler Grant and Commune.

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Collaboration, Affiliatealexis barad-cutlerJuly 18, 2019Empowered Birth, Erica Chidi Cohen, Elizabeth Rose Flynn, We Are The Wild Wmn, Schuyler Grant, Commune, Birth, Natural Birth, Hospital BirthComment
Birth Trauma From A C-Section
Birth Trauma From A C-Section

It wasn’t so much the fact of the cesarean-section itself that was traumatic — it was everything I didn’t know about it going in, and everything that happened immediately after.

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Essayalexis barad-cutlerJuly 11, 2019birth story, Birth Trauma, C-Section, Cesarean, Surgery, Vaginal Birth, Postpartum Depression, PPD Comments
The Day I Gave Birth Was Not The "Best Day Of My Life"
The Day I Gave Birth Was Not The "Best Day Of My Life"

Some people describe the day of their child’s birth as being one of their most cherished, happy memories. My experience? Let’s just say there are a few reasons my first born son’s birth is something that won’t make my top ten list:

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Essayalexis barad-cutlerJuly 8, 2019Motherly, Essay, Birth, Belly Birth, C-Section, Trauma, PostpartumComment
What My Son's Unexpected Blindness Diagnoses Has Taught Me About Myself
What My Son's Unexpected Blindness Diagnoses Has Taught Me About Myself

I don’t remember anything else from those first hours Jonas’ life, except that when I looked in his eyes I saw only grey clouds.

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Essayalexis barad-cutlerJune 21, 2019Differently abled, Motherhood Journey, Founder, Disability, Non-Sighted, Rare ConditionComment
When Shopping For Father’s Day Cards, I Felt Nothing
When Shopping For Father’s Day Cards, I Felt Nothing

What kind of card do you get the dad who doesn’t fit any of Hallmark’s “ideal” descriptions?

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alexis barad-cutlerJune 13, 2019
It Could Be Worse . . .
It Could Be Worse . . .

What do you say when someone rains platitudes on your trauma?

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Hey Mom Groupalexis barad-cutlerMay 30, 2019Empathy, Empath, Comeback, Platitudes, It Could Be Worse, Worse, Pain, Struggle, CrowdsourceComment
The Witness
The Witness

I am not what you see before you. (May be triggering. Content has to do with eating disorders.)

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Essayalexis barad-cutlerMay 23, 2019Eating Disorder, Binge Eating, anorexia, Anorexic, Recovery, Addiction, Motherhood
Recap from The Secret Sex Lives of Moms | The Wing (PHOTOS)
Recap from The Secret Sex Lives of Moms | The Wing (PHOTOS)

Some insights and PHOTOS from our April 17 event at The Little Wing.

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Eventsalexis barad-cutlerMay 23, 2019Event, NSFMG Events, Photos, Talking Circles, The Wing, The Little Wing, Sex LivesComment
How To Work Through Mom Guilt
How To Work Through Mom Guilt

Instead of soaking up the good feels of the fun day I had given my kids, I was up until 2 am thinking about the ways I was coming up short. I know I am not alone in feeling mom guilt.

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Hey Mom Groupalexis barad-cutlerMay 6, 2019Mom Guilt, guilt, momguilt, judgement, guiltyComment
Takeaways From Motherhood Behind The Scenes, ATX (PHOTOS)
Takeaways From Motherhood Behind The Scenes, ATX (PHOTOS)

"This was probably one of the most life changing experiences I have had." — K

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Eventsalexis barad-cutlerMay 2, 2019Motherhood Behind the Scenes, Austin, ATX, Hello My Tribe, Trauma, Postpartum, Talking Circles, Breakout Session, Motherhood Understood, Totum, Totum WomenComment
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